Being a woman with large breasts has its challenges. Finding a bra that fits properly can be nearly impossible, not to mention the back pain that comes with carrying such a large asset around all day. But there is also an upside – men like me, and my love life is active. In this blog, I want to talk about how I’ve learned to manage these two sides of the coin, and how being different has enriched my life.
The Challenges of Having Big Boobs
The most immediately obvious challenge of having big boobs is finding clothes that fit. Even shopping in the plus-size section doesn’t guarantee you’ll find something suitable. Anything fitted is usually too small in the chest area, while anything loose fails to flatter my shape. It’s disheartening when I have to constantly settle for shirts that don’t quite fit right or bras that are too tight around the ribcage but still don’t provide enough support.
The other major challenge of having big boobs is back pain. My breasts are heavy – they pull at my shoulders and strain my spine. On days when I stand or sit for too long without taking breaks, I feel so much tension in my upper body that it can be hard to relax even after lying down for hours. I had no idea how much of an impact bad posture would have on me until I started experiencing chronic backaches due to the weight of my breasts pulling me forward all day long.
The Benefits of Having Big Boobs
Despite all these struggles, having big boobs does come with some benefits as well! For one thing, it seems like men really do appreciate them – or at least they show it more than if I were smaller up top! My experiences dating have been positive overall – I attract a lot of attention from both genders (which can be overwhelming), but overall it’s been nice to feel desired again after years of feeling invisible because of my size. Plus, getting dressed up and wearing something form-fitting makes me feel more confident and attractive than ever before!